QI remember the sound of real silence. The ceremony of getting dressed. The way beauty was once considered an offering, not an indulgence.
I’m not here to recreate the past. I’m here to reclaim what was sacred in it.
I’m Susan Fleming—a writer, cultural essayist, and poetic philosopher of ritual, beauty, and becoming. My work explores what it means to live with presence, elegance, and soul structure in a modern world that rewards performance over meaning.
Before stepping fully into my literary and lifestyle work, I spent decades as a journalist, English teacher, and editor, with a deep background in performance and media. I was once Mrs. Gastonia and a runner-up in the Mrs. North Carolina pageant. I’ve been featured on billboards, worked in theatre, taught college writing, homeschooled my 3 children, and now serve as a caregiver for my 95-year-old grandmother. My lived experience bridges glamor and grit—and I bring both into everything I create.
My signature philosophy, Beauty & Beckoning™, is both a threshold and a return. It’s where velvet and honesty meet. Where grief is given rhythm. Where a woman becomes her own invitation back to herself.
Through books, essays, and soul-rooted storytelling, I write for women who are ready to slow down—not into quiet erasure, but into a deeper kind of listening. I create poetic content about:
• 🕯 Ritual and sacred dailiness
• 🩶 Grief, aging, and midlife resurrection
• 💄 Beauty as a private act of reverence
• 📚 Homemaking as memory-keeping
• ✍️ And the art of writing one’s life with intention
I’ve worn many titles—pageant queen, journalist, teacher, model, mother—but what I’ve always been is a threshold-keeper.
I now write to help women cross their own.
Welcome to Beauty & Beckoning™.
This isn’t a brand.
It’s a homecoming
Susan’s mission is to inspire cultivated living through heritage travel, timeless style, and modern rituals of grace.
Drawing on her experience as a journalist, model, and etiquette expert, she crafts stories that honor the past while elevating the present. Whether interpreting the soul of a historic hotel, curating vintage fashion, or exploring the meaning behind manners, her work is infused with reverence and intention.
Susan doesn’t simply create content—she creates context. She chronicles a life where beauty and meaning intertwine.
Whether illuminating the elegance of a handwritten note or restoring the soul of a forgotten tradition, Susan brings reverence to every frame.
For the past 30 years, Susan has volunteered with organizations dedicated to helping sexually-abused children, orphaned animals, and the awareness and prevention of domestic violence. Her commitment to heritage travel has led her to serve on boards for historic preservation, museums, ballet, education, and more.
I've always had a passion for exploring new places, trying new things, and living life to the fullest. Through Susan Fleming, I'm able to share my experiences and inspire others to step out of their comfort zones and embrace adventure.
I believe that life is meant to be enjoyed and that we should make the most of every moment. Whether it's through travel, food, or experiences, I encourage my readers to savor every opportunity and create memories that will last a lifetime.
On Susan Fleming, you'll find a variety of content related to lifestyle, travel, and adventure. From destination guides and travel tips to restaurant recommendations and activity ideas, my goal is to provide valuable information and inspiration for anyone looking to live life to the fullest.
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